Tag Archives: Revenge

When you feel like getting revenge

Seven responses when you feel like getting revenge.  Continue reading

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An eye for an eye?

Jesus demanded a radical lifestyle in the opposite direction of revenge. Jesus renounced the human tendency toward revenge and elevated forgiveness. Continue reading

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Forgiveness is an act of worship

When hurt by others, we often only see the horizontal significance of what occurred. “This is about me and the one who hurt me!” we argue. Yet those who worship God are called to view forgiveness as an act of worship. This is primarily about God and secondarily about me or my offender. When we forgive, we “let go of” instead of “holding on to” or “holding against.”

Forgiveness is an act of releasing to God the hurtful actions and consequences of the wrong done to us. Continue reading

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Why bitter people are difficult to help

Bitterness is a protective mechanism used to guard cherished resentments. It can feel good to be bitter because bitterness is an emotional drug that induces temporary feelings of relief. Continue reading

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