Category Archives: Fathers

A quiet domineering father (Lisa’s story)

My father was often quiet, but a stern look or gesture from him conveyed so much danger to me. I was always afraid of setting him off — even though he never hit us or anything like that. It seems difficult to understand how someone can rule with fear without actually doing anything. But I lived in fear of him. Continue reading

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Hurt by a distant father (Julie’s story)

Julie was baffled by unexplainable outbursts of anger and an almost continual feeling of discontentment — even though she was married to a loving, supportive husband and had four beautiful children. Continue reading

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How could I kill my father?

Charlie’s home was a prison of fear and anger. He hated the man that should have been the most important person in his life. Home should be a safe place for children, a place filled with heartwarming memories. Charlie looked back on a place remembered for the fear and anger it produced. Continue reading

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Lisa’s Story: A quiet domineering father

I lived in fear of my father. Continue reading

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Transforming marriages, families and Churches

Here is a needed word for our marriages, families and Churches. Continue reading

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Unity in Marriage

If it wasn’t good for the man to be alone, it won’t resolve matters if a wife disappears into his identity. Continue reading

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Answering God’s call beyond the walls of the Church

leaders in the Church “need to help our people see that their calling is much bigger than how much time they put into church matters.” Continue reading

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