Some great advice we are wise to follow.
Before trying to sort things out in the lives of others and before making judgments about others, pray this prayer,
“Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! Point out anything in me that offends you, and lead me along the path of everlasting life” (Psalm 139:23-24).
This will protect us from the dangerous and deceptive sin of considering ourselves to be righteous and looking down on others. (See: Luke 18:9-14)