When couples understand that marriage is not about being in love, but an agreement to love; not about feeling loved, but truly valuing each other, then they will find the path to deep and meaningful companionship.
And, as a result, they usually experience the feelings of love that come with the choice to love. But don’t confuse this order or love won’t last very long.
For more on this subject:
- Marriage is not supposed to make you happy
- What if you don’t feel love for your spouse?
- A closer look at marriage
- To love and to cherish