Category Archives: Unity

Overcome division with core values

Conflict management 101 “Virtually all theorists of conflict management agree that parties to a conflict must share larger or ultimate values in common as a basis on which to resolve their differences”  ( Hugh Halverstadt, Managing Church Conflict, p. 212). Two great examples … Continue reading

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Five motivations for protecting unity

1. The teaching of Jesus Matthew 5:23-24  “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled … Continue reading

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Conflict and Unity in the Church

The story is not a pleasant one when a Church becomes a center of conflict instead of love. Yet the story is not exceptional either as many of our letters in the New Testament reveal. I smile when people say … Continue reading

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Godly sorrow vs. worldly sorrow


  Leaders and members of a local Church must be willing to occasionally speak truth into the lives of those who don’t appear to desire it. This is part of being a truthful body of the one who said, “I am the … Continue reading

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Christian community

  What kind of community life should a local Church pursue? This is best answered by closely looking at the “one-another” commands in the New Testament. These are exhortations about how to relate to each other as Christians in community.  … Continue reading

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United fellowship

  On the importance of unity and protecting a Church from divisive people: Unity on debatable matters Thoughts about unity in the Church Protect your Church from Pharisees  Warning: Dangerous people Steve Cornell

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A plea for civility and sanity from brave liberals and progressives

  This is a plea for civility and sanity among brave liberals and progressives. It’s time for many of them to break the silence and oppose the tone changes and agendas in their party. They have good reasons to be … Continue reading

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6 resources for protecting unity

  Allow me to offer six resources for equipping you to stand against divisive and vicious behaviors that destroy the unity of true fellowship. Social cannibals Resolving Conflict: two essential principles Love: the final apologetic Twisted pleasures of the heart … Continue reading

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Four lessons in greatness

Jesus repeatedly taught lessons on true greatness.  He used four main settings to contrast human pursuits of greatness with the norms of His kingdom. 1. The cultural attitude toward children  Matthew 18:1-4  “At that time the disciples came to Jesus … Continue reading

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Protecting the unity of the Church

Wouldn’t it be great if unity among Christians and in the Church was never threatened or disturbed? Of course, we know this isn’t reality for many reasons. A primary one is that when people receive God’s gift of salvation, it … Continue reading

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